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Šta god da činiš, NI SLUČAJNO nemoj da mu priznaš da nikada nisi imala momka i li da si totalno i ludo zaljubljena u njega. Neko kaze da je samopouzdanje najvaznije. A pri kraju veceri rekao mi je da ne mislim da me ne zeli nego da nece da zuri.


Dugo sam razmišljala kako je taj frajer došao od tačke A kad joj je delovao bezveze do tačke B kad joj se iskreno svideo. Kako smuvati devojku preko facebooka? Da znam ovoliko o popravci automobila i da prodajem tu informaciju imao bih dosta para.


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Prvi utisak je najbitniji Nikada nećeš biti u prilici da popraviš prvi utisak. Zato se super skockaj. Naravno, neka to ne bude ništa preterano, niti napadno, malo šminke i slatka frizurica biće sasvim dovoljni. Ukoliko frajer tvojih snova još nema pojma da postojiš, u prednosti si. Njegov prvi utisak zavisiće od toga kako ćeš mu se predstaviti. Nemoj da se plašiš, i momci isto uživaju u flertovanju. Većina frajera obožava devojke sa smislom za humor. Sitne životne promašaje mnogo lakše ćeš podneti ukoliko se nasmeješ samoj sebi. Ako si pomalo čudna ili šeprtlja, smisao za humor ti može biti od velike pomoći. Uz malo vežbe ljudi će se smejati s tobom, a ne tebi. Osim toga, svako je mnooogo lepši sa smeškom na licu. Budi zainteresovana za sve što priča! Budimo iskreni, niko nije interesantan sve vreme. Ideja nije da uvek budeš zainteresovana, već da deluješ tako. Što više on bude ubeđen da tebe stvarno zanima ono što ono priča, više će ti se otvoriti. Kontakt očima je veoma bitan faktor. Uvek ga gledaj pravo u oči. I ne zaboravi važnost govora tela. Baci pogled na njegov profil na MySpaceu ili Facebooku. Otkrij šta ga interesuje u životu i informiši se o tome. Sprovedi pravo malo istraživanje i potrudi se da zapamtiš neke stvari koje ćeš kasnije u konverzaciji sa njim upotrebiti. Momci su uvek impresionirani kada se devojke razumeju u muške stvari. Iskrenost je najdelotvornija u stvaranju bilo kojeg odnosa, zato budi otvorena i iskrena i prema potencijalnom momku. Iako većina devojaka misli suprotno, većina frajera ceni iskrenost. Sa iskrenošću dolazi i poverenje, pa nikada nećeš morati da se plašiš otkrivanja mogućih mračnih tajni. Ne budi očajnica Uvek glumi cool ribu. Šta god da činiš, NI SLUČAJNO nemoj da mu priznaš da nikada nisi imala momka i li da si totalno i ludo zaljubljena u njega. Očajne devojke ih užasno nerviraju. Namesti situaciju da se on prvi zainteresuje za tebe. Ukoliko i dobiješ njegov broj moba, nemoj prva da ga zoveš, već sačekaj da se on javi. Ovo je najbitnija stavka koju moraš da zapamtiš, ali ona takođe može da bude i najteža. Ne moraš da budeš najlepša devojka u sobi da bi privukla pažnju svih frajera, moraš samo da budeš najsamouverenija. Ukoliko se ponašaš kao da si posebna i drugačija od ostalih, potoje šanse da ćeš ga lako ubediti da sam otkrije šta te to čini tako neodoljivom. I zapamti, uvek hodaj podignute glave, zabaci ramena i uvuci stomak. Oh, i naravno, ne zaboravi svoj najlepši osmeh. Nemoj da se plašiš da kažeš svoje mišljenje o nečemu. Većina momaka voli devojke koje preuzimaju inicijativu u razgovoru. Nikada se ne ustručavaj da mu kažeš šta stvarno misliš o nečemu, bez obzira na to kako bi mogao reagovati. I uvek se trudi da ti budeš ta koja vodi razgovor, jer muškarci više vole da budu vođeni, nego da vode. Dunja,kazes mu kao nesto ovog tipa; 'pa nisam sa tobom pricala dugo vremena,pa bi volila da to nadoknadim'. XD ako ti je ovo glupo,probaj ovo;'pa onako,bude smor,znas kako vec,pa se sjetim kako bi mi mogao uljepsati dan brt. I naravno ja sam musko 1. Ja obozavam kada devojka kada ja pricam da ona se smeska i tako to tako mi daje osecaj i vec mi pokazuje da hoce nesto 2. Ocajno mrzim devojke kada stave sminku ili nes Budi svoja 3. Po meni je najlepse kada imate prilike posto verovatno ovde ste svi skoro iz osnovne skole koliko vidim, da mu ukazete to kao npr da sednete pored njega da dodjete u kontakt sa njime. I najlepse je npr ako imate Ekskurziju ili neki odmor u autobusu da budete tu pored njega da mu ukazujete to da se dodirujete. Verujte iz iskustva ovo pricam ne mojte mnogo se praviti neko i nesto nego dajte mu priliku isto mrzim takve ''cure'' kada se prave vazne.. Ukazite mu to na neki najbolji nacin zamolimte njegovog druga ili vaseg najboljeg druga da mu npr kaze ako ste na ekskurziji da izadje kao da ostanete sami ali mislim da pricate ali jos bolje je da on i ostane ali da ne bude to vise momaka npr samo 2 ne bih on bio siguran da li se njemu udvaravate ili kome vec.. Bilo kakva prilika kada je pricajte sa njim. Prvo budite prijatelji pa posle ce polako sve doci 8. Ne mojte se ljubiti tek onako vec kada dodje isto prilika da se poljubite kada imate taj osecaj. Sve sto vi osecate prema njemu oseca on i prema vama i zna kada ce te mu prici i ukazati priliku 10. Ako ste njega mislili ''smuvati'' ne mojte mnogo sa drugima ulaziti u kontakt zato sto on ne zna kome se udvarate cas njemu cas tamo nekome drugom.. I ja prosto receno obozavam devojke koje su svoje a ne nesto mi se tu prave nego lepo i ne mojte imati strah ako on se vama smeska i tako to prilazi vam nesto bih hteo pa ne bih... Dajte mu priliku 12. Ako on vama se udvara dajte mu priliku ne mojte ga ispaljivati vec pruzite mu sansu! Milica Ljudi, kako ja da znam da li se ja njemu svidjam? Dopisivali smo se bas bas puno, ali poslednjih 10ak dana ne. Videli smo se poslednji put pre 5 dana na 10min, razmenili po koju rec i to je to. Blejali smo jednom, od tada kao da nam je zahldio odnos. Mnogo mi nedostaje, ali nemam hrabrosti da mu to priznam. Cak mislim da nisam jedina devojka sa kojom se dopisuje i 'muva'. I to me uzasno nervira. A opet, bas mi se svidja taj decko, a mislim da ni on nije potpuno ravnodusan. Meni se jedan dečko svidja već duže vreme ali ja mislim da se ja njemu uopšte ne svidjam ja stvarno ne znam sta da radim... Za par dana idem na rodjendan gde ce on biti. Sama pomisao na njega me jezi i tako mi je savrseno kad samo pomislim kako se ljubimo. Stvarno bih zelela da se smuvamo. A mislim da nema bolje prilike od ove jer cemo biti nas dvoje i njegov i moj mladji brat, tako da ce biti lako da ostanem sa njim sama ali se bojim jer je stariji od mene 2 godine da me bukvalno nece ni pogledati. Da li mi neko moze pomoci kako da privucem paznju? Svidja mi se jedan decko iz skole. On je stariji od mene dvije godine. Pratimo se na instagramu ali mi ne lajkuje nista , mislim da me nije bas primjetio i obratio paznju na mene. Jako zelim da me primjeti i da ostvarim nekakv kontakt sa njim. Problem je sto niko od mojih drugarica se ne druzi sa njim i njegovim drustvom, pa nemam kako. A jos jedan problem je sto ja zivim u drugom gradu, a idem u skolu u taj grad gdje je on, pa ga samo u skoli vidjam. U skoli je dosao novi decko. Mn se on svidja ne poznajemo se bas dobro, ali smo se dop ali ne javlja mi se u skoli. Kad me vidi neki put me pogleda nekad ne, i kad me pogleda kao da oce da se nasmeje ali u jednom trenutku stane. Mladji je od mn godinu dana. Kad mu nap poruku nekad ne odgovori. Sta da radim da mu se dopadnem? Pomozite plizz Treba mi pomoc. Ja sam pre dva meseca ugledala jednog decka iz beceja. I dopisivali smo se mesec dana. Ja sam sad u subotu otisla u becej zbog njega. I ja sam povela dve drugsrice i jednog druga. I njemu se svidela moja drugarica a ne ja. A jako mi se svidja decko jako. Ja sam pre dva meseca ugledala jednog decka iz beceja. I dopisivali smo se mesec dana. Ja sam sad u subotu otisla u becej zbog njega. I ja sam povela dve drugsrice i jednog druga. I njemu se svidela moja drugarica a ne ja. A jako mi se svidja decko jako. Svidja mi se jedan decko iz beceja. Ja sam izasla sa drugaricama u tu diskoteku gde radi i bili smo zajedno u separeu. A dopisivali smo se dva meseca. I on se zaljubio u moju drugaricu a ne u mene. A pri kraju veceri rekao mi je da ne mislim da me ne zeli nego da nece da zuri. A pored mene je bio u diskoteci i slikao se sa njom a ne samnom. I da kad sam bila dosla kuci on me je naz i pitao kako se zove ta devojka i jos mi je rekao da je lepa. Sta da radim pomoc pomoc!!!! Na jednoj zurci sam zapala za oko jednom momku, takodje i on meni. On mene stalno gleda i cula sam da prica svojim drugovima o meni. Ali problem je sto je on stariji brat jedne moje drugarice i ja to nisam znala sve do nekako, on zna da se nas dve druzimo i ne znam da li je to njemu problem.


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I say this because if you stay with this guy, my advice could serve as an advantage as long as you have patience. Sometimes I learned the hard way and I totally hated it until the new concepts grew on me, which is still happening to this day. I'm always growing up. He cares, so I care. Don't be brutally honest to any degree unless you feel it could be productive and helpful because meltdowns suck, and I almost made it 6 months without one. Had my first one since September 22nd last wednesday. There are so many things that can trigger meltdowns that you would least expect, and harsh criticism is one of the biggest triggers for me at least. Good luck, and if you need anything else, you can message me. Happy you came here to ask us! I always appreciate when someone is straight to the point. I cannot guess at what people want, even if they give me clues. To me, anything people say is OK, as long as they say it nicely. I might also add, that if he seems like he does not want to see you at times, it probably has nothing to do with you, we often need alone time to regenerate. He must be lucky to have you, and you are a very kind-hearted person for wanting to pursue something deeper with him. I would advise for you to just continue going out with him and do some activities that both of you may enjoy. Treat him just like you would treat any other human being, as that is all we seek, or at least for me personally, I just want to be treated fairly and with respect just like anybody else. Good luck and hope things work out swimmingly! Gallows humor: Run like hell, or at least talk to my wife before you decide to continue. I have spent deacades outside my comfort zone, and only recently have realized that I shouldn't have tried so hard. So much time doing things I didn't enjoy and going through the motions, guessing at rituals that I'm basically not capable of performing, trying to emulate and become like people I am really not like at all. Better I should have done what made me happy, what interested me, and what I am suited to and capable of. My point is: Really see who he is, and accept it. Can you accept it every day for the duration of the relationship? Do not expect him to change. It is unlikely, except in a few trivial ways. You should plan on spelling things out for him. Virtually all of your nonverbal communication will go right by him. He probably will not know where he stands with you, even if you think you're making it clear. Aspies can be very very into thier love interests, and we can take breakups extremely hard. I personally have always had an embarrassingly difficult time getting over failed relationships. I have High-Functioning Autism and my boyfriend's an NT. I am high-maintenance but he loves me and thinks the good far outweigh the 'bad' my words not his, he loves everything about me. Whereas some of my autistic traits annoy me sometimes, he's said he likes them. While he doesn't like me having sensory issues because he sees my pain, he likes that I plan a lot and he likes my way of thinking, for example. I think it's great your date was open about his autism. When you're further on in your dates, it'd be good to talk about it and ask him what kind of things he has trouble with. While there are many traits all of us share, it'll be good to hear how things are for him since every individual is different. All I can tell u is that at least he told u up front and was honest about it. After the first three month his true self emerged randomly saying off the wall things. Well there it is all in a nutshell. Aspies tend to tell the truth a lot. Sometimes, too much of the truth. Sometimes we can misrepresent ourselves during social situations. If someone with Aspergers is shy, they may appear to be unfriendly to people because they don't talk very much. Some aspies don't like to be touched. We have trouble picking up non-verbal communication such as body language,facial expressions etc.. Its better to communicate with Aspies verbally. Most Aspies have a strong sense of vocabulary. If there is a problem, don't try to give hints. It is better to communicate verbally to someone with Asperger Syndrome We have a somewhat impaired theory of mind. This means that it is sometimes hard for Aspies to put themselves in other peoples shoes or comprehend how someone else might feel. We do have strengths such as we are very intelligent, inquisitive, logic-based, and we have a good sense of humour even if it is sometimes odd. Many of us also have a very intense interest. Half of the time, it is video games Heya LisaJoy, I am a neurotypical engaged to an Aspie's man, and I also have several friends with Aspies. Having said that, they can also be the best, most honest, thoroughly enjoyable and emotionally rewarding, it just takes a little more work and a lot more communication. I am a high functioning Aspie engaged to a neurotypical... It's almost as intimidating as talking on the phone in my opinion. Avoid using sarcasm in conversations unless he initiates it. I definitely take almost everything literally, but in recent years I have embraced the art of applying sarcasm in social settings thanks to lots of help from my fiance and the medical drama show House. Too many to pick just one or two. I have been with my guy for almost 7 years, beginning when we were just a few months from turning 19... I say this because if you stay with this guy, my advice could serve as an advantage as long as you have patience. Sometimes I learned the hard way and I totally hated it until the new concepts grew on me, which is still happening to this day. I'm always growing up. He cares, so I care. Don't be brutally honest to any degree unless you feel it could be productive and helpful because meltdowns suck, and I almost made it 6 months without one. Had my first one since September 22nd last wednesday. There are so many things that can trigger meltdowns that you would least expect, and harsh criticism is one of the biggest triggers for me at least. Good luck, and if you need anything else, you can message me. Happy you came here to ask us! You describe my life so well my dear. One would think you had lived it. My arch enemy, Meltdown. I have battled this since I was too young to remember. At almost 50, my parents still mention my problem childhood. I have however made it my special interest and have devoted much of my life to winning this war. Although I still have occasional times of distress, I have largely overcome the day or days consuming meltdowns of the past. How I remember the chronic exhaustion, the numb of being spent, and I don't miss it a bit. There is no way of ridding yourself of this part of us, but there are much better ways to deal with the feelings and events that lead up to this. If you care, I would be happy to share what I have learned from all of this. My wishes are with you. You describe my life so well my dear. One would think you had lived it. My arch enemy, Meltdown. I have battled this since I was too young to remember. At almost 50, my parents still mention my problem childhood. I have however made it my special interest and have devoted much of my life to winning this war. Although I still have occasional times of distress, I have largely overcome the day or days consuming meltdowns of the past. How I remember the chronic exhaustion, the numb of being spent, and I don't miss it a bit. There is no way of ridding yourself of this part of us, but there are much better ways to deal with the feelings and events that lead up to this. If you care, I would be happy to share what I have learned from all of this. My wishes are with you. Thank you, I would you love to to share what you have learnt. I have been told that it's like a regress to when a toddle has a tantrum when I have a really severe meltdown. Minor meltdowns are more frequent issues at work, ruined food when cooking, can't find my keys. The key one was resolved by hanging them in the same place. I remember thinking that my meltdowns were like a perpetual curse old thinking , I don't think that anymore. I know that's my inability to cope, manage or control a situation. Be careful with romantic expectations. All those rules we ladies been taught - it's acceptable and sometimes expected for men to open doors, pay for dates initially, make the first move, ask for dates - he may not be aware of or understand the logic behind it. Your date will probably have his own code of conduct for dates and other social engagements and it may not look like what you expect, and he may have difficulty picking up on subtle cues. As long as he continues to be kind and interests you, it should be fine if you keep that in mind. I feel your pain here! Meltdowns or tantrums used to cause my family a lot of pain no one else got to see them but they will usually flare up if something goes fairly wrong. My way to get around this is to think of the route cause then figure out a solution. One notable example was when my suspension broke when leaving for work but rather than panic, I remembered the mechanic I used was just around the corner. I also phoned my work and explained what had happened and said I would be late for my shift. My boss agreed a shift slide instead of recording a lateness as the situation wasn't my fault and I got my car fixed that day for a decent price! Looking back I could've buried my head in the sand and avoided my work as I was very stressed but because I sucked it up and tried to fix the problem I ended up having a pretty decent day that day. It's amazing what you can do when you put your mind to it. If you have AS and the associated intelligence you are in a great position to effectively cure some of the down points! Most notably is we are problem solvers and we can use this to figure our way out of sticky situations. I am trying to figure out how best to keep things comfortable and not awkward. Time lag on everything reading people, saying yes, saying I love you, etcetera. However, we are seriously under estimated on stuff, if someone insulted me, even if I totally missed the remark, I will rewind and replay the tape down the line. Slow to process is not the same as stupid or gullible, we are often wicked smart. Because we are slow to process the outside world, figuring out too much new stuff, people, surprise requests, etcetera , at one time can over load us. Look for a distracted dazed look and apparent loss of hearing. So in dating stay away from crowded places unless he is very familiar and comfortable with them. Walks in the park, or woods, sitting by the river watching it go by, picnics where you lay on the blanket and look for cloud animals, or going sailing, will go over well. Introduce the family and new life with you stuff in small bites and give him a few days to absorb and roll the new stuff around in his head so he feels comfortable with dealing with it. Ease into the romance stuff like you're getting into the hot springs and explain the why's and how toos in detail. We learn slower but we learn better. Always wants a kiss and a hug but literally removes my hands from him. Great in bed but don't touch me afterwards... He is a farmer and works till he drops runs several farms has no signs of any other issues just social problems. Think I will start dealing with this relationship a little differently now... Always wants a kiss and a hug but literally removes my hands from him. Great in bed but don't touch me afterwards... He is a farmer and works till he drops runs several farms has no signs of any other issues just social problems. Think I will start dealing with this relationship a little differently now... Just keep it open and talk about it. I'm kinda oblivious for those things as well so i really appreciate it when my girlfriend tells me what bothers her. If you don't know why exactly he doesn't want it, maybe he has an explanation for it. Ofcourse I can't talk for everybody and all aspies are different but I personally want her to tell me those things so we can work it out. Every action has a thought and every thought has a process, communication is key if you ask me. Even if we can be bad at it sometimes, best way to learn is to do it.


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What steps should you take to prepare for a date. You are so young and usually self acceptance comes in life through time and trials but due to your situation, you will need to learn at an earlier age. If you had a gluten piece, were afraid of speaking in public, or high cholesterol you would probably not put that in your profile. I say this because if you stay with this guy, my advice could serve as an advantage as long as you have patience. Matthew Rozsa Matthew Rozsa is a breaking news del for Salon. Any views and opinions expressed are not necessarily shared by GoodTherapy. He talked a lot and fast, telling me that he also has ADHD. To learn more, view the webinar.

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